Moving in together, buying a first home and starting a family are among life’s biggest milestones. Yet new research commissioned by Ellisons suggests many people remain uncertain about what would happen if their relationship came to an end.
The survey found that almost one in four people (23%) admitted they were unsure where unmarried couples stand legally if they separate. Uncertainty was even greater among younger adults, rising to almost three in ten (30%) of those aged 18 to 34, compared with 19% of people aged 55 and over.
The findings come as the Government consults on proposals to reform the law affecting cohabiting couples through its ‘A Fairer End to Relationships’ consultation. The consultation closes on 14 August 2026.
The research also suggests many people believe the law should offer greater protection in some circumstances. Almost a quarter (24%) believe long-term unmarried couples should have greater protection under the law if they separate, while the same number (24%) believe greater protection should be available where children are involved.
Responses were broadly consistent across Essex, Suffolk and Norfolk, suggesting uncertainty is shared across the region.
Anna Cross, Legal Director in the Family team at Ellisons, said: “One of the most common misconceptions we come across is the belief that living together for a number of years gives couples the same legal rights as marriage. Unfortunately, that isn’t the case. Family life has changed enormously over the years and more couples are choosing to live together before getting married, or without marrying at all. We’re increasingly seeing clients who are part of a blended family too and it’s right that the conversation about the law keeps pace with the way people live today. Whatever choices people make, understanding the legal position helps people make informed decisions about the future. That’s one of the reasons the Government’s consultation is so important.”
Planning ahead is another important consideration for couples building a future together, particularly where property, children or wider family arrangements are involved.
Nicola Weldon, Partner and Head of Private Client at Ellisons, added: “When people move in together or buy a home, they’re usually thinking about everything that’s ahead of them, not the legal paperwork. But those are often the moments when a little planning can make a real difference. For unmarried couples, making a will and reviewing how assets are owned are simple steps that can help make sure wishes are clear and the people closest to them are protected. That’s particularly important where children or blended families are involved. It’s not about expecting something to go wrong. It’s about giving yourself and the people you care about greater clarity and peace of mind for the future.”
Notes to editors
Research commissioned by Ellisons was conducted on 6 July 2026 among 349 adults across Essex, Suffolk and Norfolk, with more than 100 respondents from each county.